某女生作诗曰:
一日黄昏漫步,见一男生装酷,呕吐,呕吐,低头只想撞树。

男生回诗曰:
一日自习深处,见一恐龙撞树,恐怖,恐怖,可怜那棵小树。

西卒是个醉,
月垂是个睡,
酒仙李太白,
怀抱酒坛在土坡睡,
不知他是醉,
不知他是睡;
月长是个胀,
月半是个胖,
太师秦夫人,
怀抱大肚在花园逛,
不知她是胀,
不知她是胖。

Saturday, February 28, 2009

Am I Pessimistic or Am I Optimistic?

When I was in the clinic, a doctor was talking on the phone to a patient who seemed to have a serious illness, she said:-

"Think of the worst, so it won't be the worst in the future, but a bonus!!"

I have a few friends who tend to say I'm a very pessimistic person who likes to think of the worst. And I don't deny that. Many times, when I'm doing something, I would think about the possible outcomes, and most of the times the worst case scenario. So, in someway, I guess they are right.

I've never doubt what they said until yesterday when I was in the clinic, when I heard what the doctor said.

Examining the statement made by the doctor, what do you guys think now? Am I being pessimistic or Am I actually being optimistic.

Maybe because I often lack self-confidence, hence causing myself into believing that many things that I'm doing will not achieve the best results which can be obtained. Prompting me to think about how bad the outcome of my action will become.

Sometimes, after thinking of all the possible worst case scenario, I will also think of possible steps to take if it really happens.

But then again, sometimes I can think of the worst event and yet I become so helpless to do anything about it, if it really happens.

So, back to the question, "Am I Pessimistic or Am I Optimistic?"..

What do you all think?

3 comments:

Keiichi Arakazu said...

There is the "in between" option between "Pessimistic" and "Optimistic" which is being "Realistic". And that is what I'd like to think myself as.

Teddy said...

MJ

well said.. Realistic...

but wat is the difference between realistic & pragmatic?

any idea?

Keiichi Arakazu said...

"Pragmatic" means being practical. When there is a problem, a pragmatic person will act to solve the problem and not just dwell on it. Quite different from being realistic...