Some people may wonder why in the previous post regarding "I know I'm not important to you, but...", I've included relationships with family, friends, etc when the post normally refers to relationships between gf-bf.
Well, the word 'Relationship' itself does not just mean the relationship between gf-bf, it can also refer to the other relationships. Hence even the situation in that particular dilemma.
For example, when it comes to a family. Maybe the parents would say "Your eldest brother is good at studies, your second brother is good at sports, your youngest brother is good at arts, but how come you are good at nothing?". When the parents say this to a kid, the child may feel sad, but then he may still love his parents even though they put more emphasis on the other siblings, hence, even though he is not really appreciated by the parents, he still remain by their side as their children and loving them.
When it comes to friends, the same scenario can apply to. For example, you like a particular friend, but then there maybe too much differences between you and the friend, hence making both of you to have a tough time being together that you two no longer spend time together or to the person, you are just a very common person that he met and he has much better friends close to him. Yet, it doesn't mean you erase the person of your memory, instead you still regard the person as a friend and remain near in case the friend needs your help, even though this friend may not really appreciate what you do for him unlike if it is done by the rest of his close friends who he likes more.
It may sound funny, but in fact the scenario can also apply to your relationships with your pets. I used to have 5 cats at a particular time, and I do scold them once in awhile as they love to jump onto the curtain to climb to the lights to catch the lizards which may tear the curtain. All are fine after a few minutes, but one of them seem to be rather scared of me after that. It doesn't let me touch a lot, but then it doesn't mean I stop loving it, I still care for it, treat it when it's hurt, I still stay by his side even though he seldom let me get close to it.
So, the situation of a person devoting himself into a relationship which doesn't really repay anything just because he loves the other part, can really happen to any relationships, whether it is with their loveones, family, friends or even pets.. hehe... Anyway, all relationships involves 'love' and love doesn't only mean love between your gf/bf, love is also present between you and your parents, siblings, friends, or even pets... hehhe...
Related Links:
- I know I'm not important to you, but..
Well, the word 'Relationship' itself does not just mean the relationship between gf-bf, it can also refer to the other relationships. Hence even the situation in that particular dilemma.
For example, when it comes to a family. Maybe the parents would say "Your eldest brother is good at studies, your second brother is good at sports, your youngest brother is good at arts, but how come you are good at nothing?". When the parents say this to a kid, the child may feel sad, but then he may still love his parents even though they put more emphasis on the other siblings, hence, even though he is not really appreciated by the parents, he still remain by their side as their children and loving them.
When it comes to friends, the same scenario can apply to. For example, you like a particular friend, but then there maybe too much differences between you and the friend, hence making both of you to have a tough time being together that you two no longer spend time together or to the person, you are just a very common person that he met and he has much better friends close to him. Yet, it doesn't mean you erase the person of your memory, instead you still regard the person as a friend and remain near in case the friend needs your help, even though this friend may not really appreciate what you do for him unlike if it is done by the rest of his close friends who he likes more.
It may sound funny, but in fact the scenario can also apply to your relationships with your pets. I used to have 5 cats at a particular time, and I do scold them once in awhile as they love to jump onto the curtain to climb to the lights to catch the lizards which may tear the curtain. All are fine after a few minutes, but one of them seem to be rather scared of me after that. It doesn't let me touch a lot, but then it doesn't mean I stop loving it, I still care for it, treat it when it's hurt, I still stay by his side even though he seldom let me get close to it.
So, the situation of a person devoting himself into a relationship which doesn't really repay anything just because he loves the other part, can really happen to any relationships, whether it is with their loveones, family, friends or even pets.. hehe... Anyway, all relationships involves 'love' and love doesn't only mean love between your gf/bf, love is also present between you and your parents, siblings, friends, or even pets... hehhe...
Related Links:
- I know I'm not important to you, but..
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