时间 - Time

"如果你要幸福，
你要坚定地伸出手，
去做你想做的事，
去爱你身边最爱你的人，
不要等，
因为幸福从来没有离开过，
只是你有没有看见。"
- 再伟 -

时间是什么？

一个永远都不会累的东西？一直走呀走，不会停，不会等人，而且在它经过的地方都会留下痕迹。

有些人说，不管有多么伤痛，时间还是能冲淡一切伤痛。

有些人说，时间久了，两人之间的问题会慢慢地解决。

有些人说，过了一段时间，两个人就会对彼此有更深一层的了解。

有些人说，人是需要时间去调整心理，去适应他人还有环境。

看起来，时间是一件在我们生活当中不可缺少的东西，它帮我们解决了很多问题，对我们有宜。

但是也有人说，时间能让我们忘记很多事，很多人。它能让我们对很多人，很多地方感到生疏。

也有人说，时间久了，有些误会会变得越复杂，越难解决。

也有人说，时间久了，很多东西也变得无法挽回。旧的，变得更旧，不好的，变得更不好，老的，更是老了很多。

看起来，时间对我们可以有宜，也有害。

我在想，时间在感情方面的影响会是怎样的？

最近看见朋友和他女朋友在一起，非常甜蜜，什么都迁就她，什么都依她。但是，看一看其他已经结婚了的夫妇，还有这种情景吗？手拉手，亲亲脸颊，说甜蜜的话？有吗？很像没有，是不是因为久了，所以感情逐渐淡化了，所以没必要在这么做？

朋友之间的感情呢？会不会因时间久，而变得不认识呢？

人“和你站在一起的人是谁？”
我“我的BonBon咯”
人“BonBon？Bon Ping Cheng啊？”
我“哦，是他咯，还有谁？你的同班同学嘛。。认不出啊？”

除此之外，朋友之间出现了问题，时间能让问题慢慢地解决吗？还是让问题变得更严重，误会更深，了解变得更少。感情会不会因时间而消失呢？

时间啊。。 你到底是好还是坏？

*****************************TIME****************************

被爱的女人 - coco

Time, what are you?

Something that never gets tired? Just move on and on and on, never stopping and leaving your prints behind wherever you have been to?

Some people say, time can heal all pain, no matter how hurtful it once was.

Some people say, problems between two person can be solved as time passes.

Some people say, as time passes, we will get to know each other better.

Some people say, we need time to adapt to the ones around us and also the surroundings.

Seems like time is something we can't live without and it is beneficial to us too.

But some people say, time makes us forget the people around us and also the places we once knew.

Some people say, as time passes, misunderstandings get worse and harder to solve.

And some people say, it is hard to return things to its original state after sometime. Things which are old becomes older, things which are bad becomes worse.

Seems like times is like a double-edged sword being both beneficial and harmful to us. How about relationships? How does it affect relationships?

Looking at a friend and his lover. They can be so sweet, so romantic, holding hands, exchanging kisses. But looking at married couples, do you still see all these? Is it an effect of time? Causing relationships to become 'slower' more monotonous after awhile?

What about friendships? Will friends forget each other after some time?

Somebody "Who is that guy standing beside you?"
Me "My Bonbon lor"
Somebody "Bonbon? Bon Ping Cheng?"
Me "Yala, him lor, who else wor? Your classmate wat, last time, can't recognise meh?"

Problems between friends. Will they disappear after some time? Or will they become worse? More misunderstandings arise, less understandings established. Hence, causing the relationship to vanish slowly..

So what are you 'time'? Are you good or bad to us?

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