I was talking to YeeVoon last week. By the way, if you all didn’t know, she is or actually was my supervisor when I was doing my attachment in KL. Now she’s my friend. LOL~~ Cool leh.. hehe…
Anyway, back to topic… YV suddenly said the following:-
“When things become so routine to them,
They won’t feel the blessing of having them anymore,
Whether it’s a thing or a person…”
Do you agree with her? When was the last time when appreciate something? Why was it that you appreciate it? Is it because there was only one of it? Can you recall the last time when you first got a toy and you felt so happy having it, you took care of it, protected it, cleaned it. But when you got another toy, and another, does the feeling to care for that first toy slowly disappear?
That was what YV was trying to say. There are many people in life that often forget the feeling of blessing and appreciation when they first got something or somebody after they start to receive more of the thing or surrounded by more people.
They forget the happiness when they first got a special pen and how to appreciate it when they receive more of such pens.
They forget the presence of a friend when they are surrounded by more of them.
When things or people are in abundance in your life, will they become a routine to you? Meaning, will they become too common to you? Until you forget the uniqueness of each and every single one of them? Until you fail to see their presence anymore?
Will routine really lead towards un-appreciation? This is a good question which she asked me but I have no answer...
Anyway, back to topic… YV suddenly said the following:-
“When things become so routine to them,
They won’t feel the blessing of having them anymore,
Whether it’s a thing or a person…”
Do you agree with her? When was the last time when appreciate something? Why was it that you appreciate it? Is it because there was only one of it? Can you recall the last time when you first got a toy and you felt so happy having it, you took care of it, protected it, cleaned it. But when you got another toy, and another, does the feeling to care for that first toy slowly disappear?
That was what YV was trying to say. There are many people in life that often forget the feeling of blessing and appreciation when they first got something or somebody after they start to receive more of the thing or surrounded by more people.
They forget the happiness when they first got a special pen and how to appreciate it when they receive more of such pens.
They forget the presence of a friend when they are surrounded by more of them.
When things or people are in abundance in your life, will they become a routine to you? Meaning, will they become too common to you? Until you forget the uniqueness of each and every single one of them? Until you fail to see their presence anymore?
Will routine really lead towards un-appreciation? This is a good question which she asked me but I have no answer...
4 comments:
♥ i have no answer as well..
♥ but what happened to me in the past proved this right..
♥ routine will lead to un-appreciation...
♥ and when u r about to leave them or disappear from their life, they will only start realize the important of the presence of u..
♥ that's life.. that's human..
Connie
that's very sad, dont u think so..
sienz.. i oso dun like such feeling...
sometimes human just love taking things for granted, dont u think so?!
in ur case, wuld u stay? or wuld u leave?
♥ im totally agree with this- human love taking things for granted..
♥ i choose to stay although i know that's a stupid decision..
♥ and.. i had been went through this not about 1 or 2 times but several times....
connie
sigh... so many times ah?
that must reli hurt.. i understand it.. i've been thru it too..
but it's great dat u found the courage to stay, but sometimes, im just to tired n decide to leave instead...
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