Lincoln the former President of the United States said that "Believing nobody is dangerous", but then, don't you feel that sometimes it is just too hard to believe (trust) somebody?
In my previous post on "Trust: A Bridge to The Heart". I mentioned about how a friend describe 'Trust' as a 'Bridge' that links two people together. I'd also stated how hard it was to build the bridge or to rebuild a bridge.
For you, my dear readers, is it easy for you to forge a relationship with others? I'm not saying just popping by and talking to somebody, but making a real relationship, having trust in the person. Is it easy? Or is it hard?
If it is hard, why is it hard? Sometimes, I really don't know why it is so hard. Is it because of something happened before which is so hard to forget until it affects the buiilding of bridges (trust) in the future?
To add to the problem, nowadays, there are so many people who can fake a smile in front of you and later when you are together, he shows his true colors which is a little too late.
It hits me that the art of trusting is very hard sometimes. I myself tend to have problems with it. I don't normally trust people easily, but when I decided to build a bridge, I still made the wrong choice and have someone break them in the end making me even worried of forging any new ones.
Trust: Something that isn't easy to build nowadays...
Related link:
- Trust: A Bridge to The Heart
2 comments:
Trusting nobody is dangerous,
but trusting blindly is even more dangerous. :P
That's why trust could not be bought by money. It is the understanding of each other that builds it.
YM
but this kind of understanding doesnt come easy does it.. hehe..
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