Darija “我一点都不后悔，反而我觉得很开心，终于能离开这个鬼地方。”
Me “既然决定离开了，就开开心心地离开吧，没什么的。有空儿就再秀几次中指吧！哈哈。。”
Darija “是咯，我没伤心，只是有点儿怪自己因为以前没有打听清楚就跑到这个地方来，遇到这种人。”
Me “算了吧，这也是很难避免的，我自己也没想到会这样啊。我介绍你的那些老板，你有尝试联络吗？他们都很好的。”
Darija “有啊，现在在写着计划书给其中一个。”
Me “那就好，他们人都很好，只是他们做的实验我没什么兴趣，所以没转去他们的lab里。”
Darija “哦。。其实，我真的觉得你应该去别的地方，不应该留在这儿。You deserve better. 她脾气这么暴躁，有事没事都骂人，有问题时，就找机会赖人，你不应该留下。”
Me “我也不知道咧。。但我觉得我会坚持到年底吧，再看如何，毕竟，我还有东西想学。”
Darija “她虽然很有智慧，但是她不是个善于教导人的副教授，在她这儿做实验，你想学东西，也未必能学到很多。”
Me “我尽量吧，哈哈。”
Darija “你小心点。她需要你时，就会对你好，说你利害做事，但是出了问题时，就会说你笨，说你没用，说你做的一切都是crap。”
Me “哈哈。。这我也看得出。你看她每天早上怎么骂那个助手就知道了咯。”
Darija “是咯，我觉得那个女生很可怜，没有一天没被骂。我已经中招了。现在是那女生。过后可能是你了。她总是会找一个人来呼呼喝喝的。”
Me “嗯。但现在她还没找到我这儿来，所以还没什么问题啦。你还有一星期就离开了吧。”
Darija “是咯，还有一星期就可以走了，感觉真好！！好了，放工时间到了，回家吧。”
Me “ok,拜拜。。”
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This is the conversation (translated) with a friend from Croatia. I just know her for two months and I seldom speak to her because she is overwhelmed by the work she has at hand. Before she decided to resign, maybe I only speak to her once in two weeks even though we sit side by side as she really can't breathe at all. But nowadays, she can spare more time talking to me having not much work to do anymore.
Even though I only know her for two months, actually less, because like I said, we don't speak to each other until last week when she decided to leave this place, but she is a very nice lady, sincere with words, always speaking out her mind and being frank in a positive manner. This is what I like about Caucasians which sadly most of us Chinese can't do or don't know how to do.
It's funny, I often get into such situations where I only get to know a person better when they are leaving. Haha.. I've no idea why. I guess this is how Lord Buddha gives me the opportunity to see the good in the very few people around me and also to let others understand me.
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Last friday (15/15/09), when I was in a JB Korean restaurant, I saw this girl. She was obviously not a Chinese, but then not a full Caucasian too. She is half Chinese and half Croatian! Haha...What a coincidence. She was rather hardworking in serving the dishes, I guess it's because it's her job to do so. Anyway, she is rather friendly too, since I got her to speak a little even though I didn't get to know her name. Hehe... Thanks to her for doing a nice job... Serving the tea so many times.
Me “既然决定离开了，就开开心心地离开吧，没什么的。有空儿就再秀几次中指吧！哈哈。。”
Darija “是咯，我没伤心，只是有点儿怪自己因为以前没有打听清楚就跑到这个地方来，遇到这种人。”
Me “算了吧，这也是很难避免的，我自己也没想到会这样啊。我介绍你的那些老板，你有尝试联络吗？他们都很好的。”
Darija “有啊，现在在写着计划书给其中一个。”
Me “那就好，他们人都很好，只是他们做的实验我没什么兴趣，所以没转去他们的lab里。”
Darija “哦。。其实，我真的觉得你应该去别的地方，不应该留在这儿。You deserve better. 她脾气这么暴躁，有事没事都骂人，有问题时，就找机会赖人，你不应该留下。”
Me “我也不知道咧。。但我觉得我会坚持到年底吧，再看如何，毕竟，我还有东西想学。”
Darija “她虽然很有智慧，但是她不是个善于教导人的副教授，在她这儿做实验，你想学东西，也未必能学到很多。”
Me “我尽量吧，哈哈。”
Darija “你小心点。她需要你时，就会对你好，说你利害做事，但是出了问题时，就会说你笨，说你没用，说你做的一切都是crap。”
Me “哈哈。。这我也看得出。你看她每天早上怎么骂那个助手就知道了咯。”
Darija “是咯，我觉得那个女生很可怜，没有一天没被骂。我已经中招了。现在是那女生。过后可能是你了。她总是会找一个人来呼呼喝喝的。”
Me “嗯。但现在她还没找到我这儿来，所以还没什么问题啦。你还有一星期就离开了吧。”
Darija “是咯，还有一星期就可以走了，感觉真好！！好了，放工时间到了，回家吧。”
Me “ok,拜拜。。”
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This is the conversation (translated) with a friend from Croatia. I just know her for two months and I seldom speak to her because she is overwhelmed by the work she has at hand. Before she decided to resign, maybe I only speak to her once in two weeks even though we sit side by side as she really can't breathe at all. But nowadays, she can spare more time talking to me having not much work to do anymore.
Even though I only know her for two months, actually less, because like I said, we don't speak to each other until last week when she decided to leave this place, but she is a very nice lady, sincere with words, always speaking out her mind and being frank in a positive manner. This is what I like about Caucasians which sadly most of us Chinese can't do or don't know how to do.
It's funny, I often get into such situations where I only get to know a person better when they are leaving. Haha.. I've no idea why. I guess this is how Lord Buddha gives me the opportunity to see the good in the very few people around me and also to let others understand me.
*****************************************
Last friday (15/15/09), when I was in a JB Korean restaurant, I saw this girl. She was obviously not a Chinese, but then not a full Caucasian too. She is half Chinese and half Croatian! Haha...What a coincidence. She was rather hardworking in serving the dishes, I guess it's because it's her job to do so. Anyway, she is rather friendly too, since I got her to speak a little even though I didn't get to know her name. Hehe... Thanks to her for doing a nice job... Serving the tea so many times.
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