在暗处里，我看着你的微笑，
在暗处里，我感到你的伤痛，
在暗处里，我注意你的背影，
在暗处里，我想着替你分忧，
在暗处里，我想着如何帮你，
在暗处里，我怀念着以前，
在暗处里，我想和你玩耍，
在暗处里，我想和你说话，
在暗处里，我想和你散步，
在暗处里，我思念着你，
在暗处里，我想跟随你，
在暗处里，我就只能在暗处里。。。
Monday, March 30, 2009
暗处
在暗处里，我听着你的笑声，
在暗处里，我看着你的微笑，
在暗处里，我感到你的伤痛，
在暗处里，我注意你的背影，
在暗处里，我想着替你分忧，
在暗处里，我想着如何帮你，
在暗处里，我怀念着以前，
在暗处里，我想和你玩耍，
在暗处里，我想和你说话，
在暗处里，我想和你散步，
在暗处里，我思念着你，
在暗处里，我想跟随你，
在暗处里，我就只能在暗处里。。。
在暗处里，我看着你的微笑，
在暗处里，我感到你的伤痛，
在暗处里，我注意你的背影，
在暗处里，我想着替你分忧，
在暗处里，我想着如何帮你，
在暗处里，我怀念着以前，
在暗处里，我想和你玩耍，
在暗处里，我想和你说话，
在暗处里，我想和你散步，
在暗处里，我思念着你，
在暗处里，我想跟随你，
在暗处里，我就只能在暗处里。。。
Sunday, March 29, 2009
思,觉
小和尚说‘思’。这里他是想说，我们人往往都不会珍惜眼前的食物，全因为我们少了一份‘思想’。
如果大家能够在吃一顿饭时，想一想，桌上的菜肴是怎么来的，我们就应该不会太挑剔，太多埋怨。
吃着饭时，会不会听见小孩说‘我不要！！很难吃！！’？
不管桌上的是什么菜，我们都应该好好儿地吃，珍惜它，因为，世界上有很多人没这种福气，吃到丰富，有营养的食物，再说，面前的食物都是父母用辛苦赚来的钱买的，为了就是让我们能吃饱肚子，有力气为明天将来奋斗，所以希望大家若在吃饭时想埋怨些什么前，就三思一下吧。。
小和尚说‘觉’。
意思是说，人生无常，我们永远都不会知道明天会发生什么事。
有可能，今晚一闭上眼睛，就会一睡不醒，也很难说。
如果大家能以平常心对待人生，那么大家就不会以为富有才是幸福，反而会明白，只要能够平平安安渡过一天，和自己关心的人在一起，那就是福。。
Saturday, March 28, 2009
多一物多一心，少一物少一念
多一物多一心，少一物少一念。在这个世界里，有没有人能够做到‘知足’两个子呢？这两个字听起来简单，却很少人能够做到。到底是为什么人们都难做到知足的境界呢?
是不是因每个人的心里都有一点点的贪念呢？
贪念到底是从何而生？是不是象上面的那句话，只要人开始拥有某些东西就会想要得到更多呢？
得到很多，就会开心吗？如果拥有的不多，就不会开心吗？
那么，要怎么做，才能做到知足呢？
注：第二张图画，我没悟出什么道理咧。。谁要帮我解答一下？小和尚说的‘禅’到底是何意？
Random Thoughts
“I used to always cry and give up”
“I almost went the wrong way”
“But you showed me the right way”
“I was always chasing after you, wanting to overtake you”
“But all I wanted was just to walk with you, to be with you”
“You changed me”
“Your smile saved me”
“So I’m not afraid to die protecting you”
“Because I love you…”
“I almost went the wrong way”
“But you showed me the right way”
“I was always chasing after you, wanting to overtake you”
“But all I wanted was just to walk with you, to be with you”
“You changed me”
“Your smile saved me”
“So I’m not afraid to die protecting you”
“Because I love you…”
Friday, March 27, 2009
Wednesday, March 25, 2009
Routine Leads to Unappreciation
I was talking to YeeVoon last week. By the way, if you all didn’t know, she is or actually was my supervisor when I was doing my attachment in KL. Now she’s my friend. LOL~~ Cool leh.. hehe…
Anyway, back to topic… YV suddenly said the following:-
“When things become so routine to them,
They won’t feel the blessing of having them anymore,
Whether it’s a thing or a person…”
Do you agree with her? When was the last time when appreciate something? Why was it that you appreciate it? Is it because there was only one of it? Can you recall the last time when you first got a toy and you felt so happy having it, you took care of it, protected it, cleaned it. But when you got another toy, and another, does the feeling to care for that first toy slowly disappear?
That was what YV was trying to say. There are many people in life that often forget the feeling of blessing and appreciation when they first got something or somebody after they start to receive more of the thing or surrounded by more people.
They forget the happiness when they first got a special pen and how to appreciate it when they receive more of such pens.
They forget the presence of a friend when they are surrounded by more of them.
When things or people are in abundance in your life, will they become a routine to you? Meaning, will they become too common to you? Until you forget the uniqueness of each and every single one of them? Until you fail to see their presence anymore?
Will routine really lead towards un-appreciation? This is a good question which she asked me but I have no answer...
Anyway, back to topic… YV suddenly said the following:-
“When things become so routine to them,
They won’t feel the blessing of having them anymore,
Whether it’s a thing or a person…”
Do you agree with her? When was the last time when appreciate something? Why was it that you appreciate it? Is it because there was only one of it? Can you recall the last time when you first got a toy and you felt so happy having it, you took care of it, protected it, cleaned it. But when you got another toy, and another, does the feeling to care for that first toy slowly disappear?
That was what YV was trying to say. There are many people in life that often forget the feeling of blessing and appreciation when they first got something or somebody after they start to receive more of the thing or surrounded by more people.
They forget the happiness when they first got a special pen and how to appreciate it when they receive more of such pens.
They forget the presence of a friend when they are surrounded by more of them.
When things or people are in abundance in your life, will they become a routine to you? Meaning, will they become too common to you? Until you forget the uniqueness of each and every single one of them? Until you fail to see their presence anymore?
Will routine really lead towards un-appreciation? This is a good question which she asked me but I have no answer...
Monday, March 23, 2009
Coming to Singapore Made Me More Patriotic
The statement in the title was what a KL girl currently working in Singapore told me. And I must say, I agree with her.
You know how much we often complain about our country, Malaysia?
We talk about:-
How dirty the streets are,
How terrible the traffic jam is,
How rude the drivers can be,
How slow the government agencies are,
How unfair certain policies are,
On and on and on… There seem to be an endless list of negative properties about this place called Malaysia.
But at the same time, being in Singapore, you will come to see how beautiful our seemingly lousy country can be! I can’t believe it myself, but it is very true.
Being in this island, I somehow love Malaysia more than ever. Even though Singapore is more advance than Malaysia in many aspects whether it is social or economics, but it can still never really be better than Malaysia. That is what the girl and I agree on.
I guess the most obvious thing which this island can’t beat Malaysia is the sincerity of the society. In Malaysia, no matter how bad a place can be, how hectic life becomes, you will still be able to find sincere friends and have sincere talks.
But in Singapore, these don’t come often. Most people here don’t talk to each other. In their eyes, there is only their work. In other words, their money. Somehow, people here have become so competitive that they treat everybody around them as their enemy. They only slow down their footsteps to give a fake smile,3 to talk to each other when they need something from each other. There is no sincere chat here, nor a sincere smile.
Personal gain is the priority here. Because of one’s own personal interest, one can be ruthless and heartless and unfriendly, manipulate others, harm others, use others, so on.
Because of all these, I only feel that I’m in the real world when I’m back in Malaysia…
You know how much we often complain about our country, Malaysia?
We talk about:-
How dirty the streets are,
How terrible the traffic jam is,
How rude the drivers can be,
How slow the government agencies are,
How unfair certain policies are,
On and on and on… There seem to be an endless list of negative properties about this place called Malaysia.
But at the same time, being in Singapore, you will come to see how beautiful our seemingly lousy country can be! I can’t believe it myself, but it is very true.
Being in this island, I somehow love Malaysia more than ever. Even though Singapore is more advance than Malaysia in many aspects whether it is social or economics, but it can still never really be better than Malaysia. That is what the girl and I agree on.
I guess the most obvious thing which this island can’t beat Malaysia is the sincerity of the society. In Malaysia, no matter how bad a place can be, how hectic life becomes, you will still be able to find sincere friends and have sincere talks.
But in Singapore, these don’t come often. Most people here don’t talk to each other. In their eyes, there is only their work. In other words, their money. Somehow, people here have become so competitive that they treat everybody around them as their enemy. They only slow down their footsteps to give a fake smile,3 to talk to each other when they need something from each other. There is no sincere chat here, nor a sincere smile.
Personal gain is the priority here. Because of one’s own personal interest, one can be ruthless and heartless and unfriendly, manipulate others, harm others, use others, so on.
Because of all these, I only feel that I’m in the real world when I’m back in Malaysia…
Sunday, March 22, 2009
Jiraiya said…
“The place where somebody is thinking of you… is your home”
Recently, I posted my thoughts about the song by Claire (Guo Jing) called 麻雀 (Magpie). The song describes the girl who misses a lost relationship as a magpie which didn’t manage to reach home (The word ‘home’ is used in the song to describe the person she cared for).
Connecting the song by Claire to what Jiraiya-sama said, I would like to ask for everyone’s opinion regarding this:-
“If we think strongly of the person that we care of, will the person really return home?”
Agree?
Recently, I posted my thoughts about the song by Claire (Guo Jing) called 麻雀 (Magpie). The song describes the girl who misses a lost relationship as a magpie which didn’t manage to reach home (The word ‘home’ is used in the song to describe the person she cared for).
Connecting the song by Claire to what Jiraiya-sama said, I would like to ask for everyone’s opinion regarding this:-
“If we think strongly of the person that we care of, will the person really return home?”
Agree?
Saturday, March 21, 2009
好感、喜欢和爱
以下的文章不是出之于我，而是从David的blog抄的，我觉得真的很有意思所以抄下做为记录。
Source: David, http://blog.area739.com/ (08/03/2009); for further information, please refer to the original author's (David's) blog...
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好感是什么呢？
好感就是当你开始注意起对方的一切。你对他有着好的感觉，你和他在一起，你感到很舒服。
有时候太过要好的异性朋友之间也会产生这种感觉。
可是只不过是好感，一种感觉，一种虚幻虚渺的感觉，时有时无。
喜欢呢？
喜欢会包括有好感的一切。喜欢就是当你开始不单只注意对方的一切，你会更加注意对方会怎么看待你。
他的一句“诶，你今天穿的不错”会让你有种想要以后都不换衣的感觉。你见到他的时候，你开始觉得会紧张。因为你是在太注意对方对你的看法了。在他身边，你会感到紧张，你会小心慎言，注重自己的礼仪（本来好朋友之间会互相踩对方或则是光天化日之下挖鼻孔，一旦沾上喜欢的颜色，这一切你就会减少了）
随着喜欢的增加，这种感觉会越来越强。甚至会使到你失去理智，（比方说，刚刚人家赞你的那件衣服，你穿了差不多3个星期）
爱又会是什么呢？
爱包含了前面两个等级的感觉。爱就是你开始会产生嫉妒。看到他和异性在一起，你会感到不自在。虽然他不是你的，可是你就是会有莫名的妒忌。听到他和某某人出去的时候，你会有点怪酸的感觉。恨不得天突然下雨，然后淋得他们落汤鸡，打道回府。你会产生拥有对方的欲望（不是色色的那种！），就是你想对方完全属于你的。你想要在彼此的称呼再加上性别。你不想再和他或她做好朋友而是你想要他做你的男/女朋友。你会为了他做一切事情，一切不可能的，在这时候都会变得可能。在他身边，你觉得自己是天下无敌，什么都能做。
闯过了爱这个等级会是什么呢？
有三个可能性：
1）爱会化成它的反面，恨
当一切失败后，很有可能爱会转变成一种恨的感觉。你恨自己会爱上他。爱和恨其实很接近，你还是会注意起对方的一切，可是你对对方发生什么坏事的时候，你的感觉或许不只是幸灾乐祸，也可能会加上怜悯的感觉。当然，这个等级其实是满危险的，因为恨很有可能会遮蔽你的理智，让你做些诋毁对方的事。
2）无欲无望
你还是爱着对方。虽然你得不到对方，可是你不再在意对方的好坏，你不管对方是不是属于你的，只要对方开心，那就好了。这是超越一切的爱，超越时间，距离，以及私人欲望的爱。你愿意放手，只要对方活得开心！
3）没有感觉
激情过后，一切感觉化为乌有。什么都没有了。或许假如幸运的话，可能会恢复成朋友的关系，不幸运的话，则可能到最后连朋友都做不成了。
Related post:
- 放手
Source: David, http://blog.area739.com/ (08/03/2009); for further information, please refer to the original author's (David's) blog...
~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
好感是什么呢？
好感就是当你开始注意起对方的一切。你对他有着好的感觉，你和他在一起，你感到很舒服。
有时候太过要好的异性朋友之间也会产生这种感觉。
可是只不过是好感，一种感觉，一种虚幻虚渺的感觉，时有时无。
喜欢呢？
喜欢会包括有好感的一切。喜欢就是当你开始不单只注意对方的一切，你会更加注意对方会怎么看待你。
他的一句“诶，你今天穿的不错”会让你有种想要以后都不换衣的感觉。你见到他的时候，你开始觉得会紧张。因为你是在太注意对方对你的看法了。在他身边，你会感到紧张，你会小心慎言，注重自己的礼仪（本来好朋友之间会互相踩对方或则是光天化日之下挖鼻孔，一旦沾上喜欢的颜色，这一切你就会减少了）
随着喜欢的增加，这种感觉会越来越强。甚至会使到你失去理智，（比方说，刚刚人家赞你的那件衣服，你穿了差不多3个星期）
爱又会是什么呢？
爱包含了前面两个等级的感觉。爱就是你开始会产生嫉妒。看到他和异性在一起，你会感到不自在。虽然他不是你的，可是你就是会有莫名的妒忌。听到他和某某人出去的时候，你会有点怪酸的感觉。恨不得天突然下雨，然后淋得他们落汤鸡，打道回府。你会产生拥有对方的欲望（不是色色的那种！），就是你想对方完全属于你的。你想要在彼此的称呼再加上性别。你不想再和他或她做好朋友而是你想要他做你的男/女朋友。你会为了他做一切事情，一切不可能的，在这时候都会变得可能。在他身边，你觉得自己是天下无敌，什么都能做。
闯过了爱这个等级会是什么呢？
有三个可能性：
1）爱会化成它的反面，恨
当一切失败后，很有可能爱会转变成一种恨的感觉。你恨自己会爱上他。爱和恨其实很接近，你还是会注意起对方的一切，可是你对对方发生什么坏事的时候，你的感觉或许不只是幸灾乐祸，也可能会加上怜悯的感觉。当然，这个等级其实是满危险的，因为恨很有可能会遮蔽你的理智，让你做些诋毁对方的事。
2）无欲无望
你还是爱着对方。虽然你得不到对方，可是你不再在意对方的好坏，你不管对方是不是属于你的，只要对方开心，那就好了。这是超越一切的爱，超越时间，距离，以及私人欲望的爱。你愿意放手，只要对方活得开心！
3）没有感觉
激情过后，一切感觉化为乌有。什么都没有了。或许假如幸运的话，可能会恢复成朋友的关系，不幸运的话，则可能到最后连朋友都做不成了。
Related post:
- 放手
Friday, March 20, 2009
距离
大家有听过范玮琦的‘一颗心的距离’吗？这首歌指的是人与人之间的距离感。
你们觉得，两个人之间的距离感从何而来呢？
其实，我自己是觉得，‘距离感’是被彼此的‘了解’影响的。
比如说，我不了解一个人，就说我在街上碰见的路人吧，我不知道他的名，不知道他是什么来历，所以为了保护自己，我一定会保持一种‘距离’，一是外在的距离，就是说，不要太靠近他，怕被他打枪，欺负；二是内心的距离，就是说，有可能我会和他聊起来，但是，我不会把一切都说出来，不会把自己的家事，等等都说出来。
其实，我从小和其他人不同，虽然很静，但是如果要聊，我是不会管年龄的差别的。也因这样，时常和老师们坐在一起聊天。你们可以想象吗？一个十几岁的男孩儿和四五十岁的大人聊天。我一直都没有发现自己和别的同学有不同，直到AddMath老师在我和Puan Lim聊天后，突然走向我说“我觉得你很奇怪，人通常都会和自己年龄的人在一起，但是你为何会一直和大人在一起，聊这么多，他们还把自己的家事都和你说，你自己不觉得自己很怪吗？”当时，真的是被她吓到。。也觉得自己真的有点怪。。但一时之间，也不知道要怎么办才好。。
去年，我和中六的同学吃饭时，回一位好友的短讯。同学就问我那人是谁？我就说是我的brother咯。。他就问“你几时有了个弟弟呀？”。。哈哈。。我就和他解释说，这朋友是网上认识的。同学就说我“你有病啊？还玩这种网上交友的东西，而且和一个比小自己六岁的人做朋友，还一起出门，真的是觉得你有点神经病！！”
哈哈。。其实，我想说的是，年龄不是导致距离感的元素。导致距离感的是两人的了解。。就说两个朋友，以前谈得来，但是后来什么都没得说，为什么呢？你们想想，如果一个人不相信我，对我隐瞒很多事，久了，我自己也会对他起疑心，不知道他是否可以相信。因为开始怀疑，而对彼此少了了解，所以，为了保护自己，就会保持距离，少和对方说话。。
少了沟通，
就少了了解，
才会多了误会，
造成距离感的出现。。
你们觉得，两个人之间的距离感从何而来呢？
其实，我自己是觉得，‘距离感’是被彼此的‘了解’影响的。
比如说，我不了解一个人，就说我在街上碰见的路人吧，我不知道他的名，不知道他是什么来历，所以为了保护自己，我一定会保持一种‘距离’，一是外在的距离，就是说，不要太靠近他，怕被他打枪，欺负；二是内心的距离，就是说，有可能我会和他聊起来，但是，我不会把一切都说出来，不会把自己的家事，等等都说出来。
其实，我从小和其他人不同，虽然很静，但是如果要聊，我是不会管年龄的差别的。也因这样，时常和老师们坐在一起聊天。你们可以想象吗？一个十几岁的男孩儿和四五十岁的大人聊天。我一直都没有发现自己和别的同学有不同，直到AddMath老师在我和Puan Lim聊天后，突然走向我说“我觉得你很奇怪，人通常都会和自己年龄的人在一起，但是你为何会一直和大人在一起，聊这么多，他们还把自己的家事都和你说，你自己不觉得自己很怪吗？”当时，真的是被她吓到。。也觉得自己真的有点怪。。但一时之间，也不知道要怎么办才好。。
去年，我和中六的同学吃饭时，回一位好友的短讯。同学就问我那人是谁？我就说是我的brother咯。。他就问“你几时有了个弟弟呀？”。。哈哈。。我就和他解释说，这朋友是网上认识的。同学就说我“你有病啊？还玩这种网上交友的东西，而且和一个比小自己六岁的人做朋友，还一起出门，真的是觉得你有点神经病！！”
哈哈。。其实，我想说的是，年龄不是导致距离感的元素。导致距离感的是两人的了解。。就说两个朋友，以前谈得来，但是后来什么都没得说，为什么呢？你们想想，如果一个人不相信我，对我隐瞒很多事，久了，我自己也会对他起疑心，不知道他是否可以相信。因为开始怀疑，而对彼此少了了解，所以，为了保护自己，就会保持距离，少和对方说话。。
少了沟通，
就少了了解，
才会多了误会，
造成距离感的出现。。
Thursday, March 19, 2009
流星雨
我一生中，见过唯一一次的流星雨是在我十一岁的时候。当时，由于恒星和地球的距离很近，所以造成了长达三夜百年难得一见的流星雨。还记得那时是我的华文补习老师，陈勇明老师提醒我要看一看那壮观的奇景的，不然的话，我应该是会很早去睡觉。
流星雨就只是宇宙里的一种奇景吗？还是它也代表着什么？
古人时常会夜观星象来预测未来。不管是哪一颗星亮，哪一颗星暗，哪一颗星移动了，都有它的解说。凭着星象，以前的皇帝都有可能会改变战争策略，以免大败。轰动一时的赤壁之战，也是因孔明早料到会吹起东风而造成曹军大败。
有些人说，流星雨是扫把星，是不祥之兆。若看见了它，就是说在不久的未来将会发生一些坏事。
也有人说，天上的每一颗星，就代表着每一个人的生命。我们每一个，都有属于自己的星星。如果自己的星星很亮，就是说自己健康，好运连连。如果自己的星星开始变得暗淡，就有可能是说自己会遭一结，可能生命也会因此而结束。
既然星星代表着一个人的生命，那么自己星星的周围，有可能也会有很多亮丽的星星，代表着疼爱，关心你的人一直都在你的身边。当然，也有所谓的天杀星。据说，天杀星所代表的人，是你生命中的克星，会害死你。
如果星星代表着我们的生命，那么看着流星雨，一颗颗的星星掉落了，是不是也代表着很多人已经离开人世呢？
有空时，就抬头看一看夜景，找一找自己的星星，再看一看周围是否有其他你所关心的星星吧。。
Yi Ke Xin De Ju Li 一颗心的距离 - Fan Wei Qi
Tuesday, March 17, 2009
朋友是什么东西？(What's the meaning of a friend?)
这个问题我在去年就已经在“独来独往的午餐”回答过了。
你们还记得我的答案吗？
答案就是“朋友是不管在哪儿，都能让你微笑的人”。。就这么简单。。虽然，我看不见他，他不在我身边，但是想一想他，我就会微笑，那就是我的朋友，我喜欢，我关心，我爱的朋友。
竟然我已经写过‘朋友’这词汇的意识，那么我为什么还问呢？
其实，我想听听大家的意见。
如果像我说的，朋友是能让我们微笑的人，那么，让我们伤心难过，流泪的人，还算是朋友吗？
这就是我现在在绞尽脑汁寻找答案的问题。。
如果凭着我之前对‘朋友’的定义，朋友是让我微笑的人，那么让我流泪的，就不是朋友了咯？对吗？是这样吗？
其实，这么说会有点矛盾，对吗？因为，一个人若能让你伤心难过，那个人在你心里就一定有某种地位了。若是，一个毫无相干的人，你不认识的人，你认为不重要的人，他就肯定没法让你流泪。
打个比方说，一个你不熟悉的人搞砸了你的计划，你只会很生气，破口大骂，但是，你就只是单单的生气，而不会伤心，对吗？但是，如果，你的朋友把什么事情搞砸了，你就不只是生气了，你会有点儿难过，因为，你伤心，不明白为什么他不了解你的心思。。你们想想看，我这样说，对吗？
现在回到那个问题，让我伤心难过流泪的人，还算是我的朋友吗？你们可以解释一下答案给我吗？因为，我真的不懂。谢谢。。
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What is the meaning of a ‘Friend’?
I’ve already answer this question last year in a mandarin post called “A Lonely Lunch”
If you still remember the answer, it is “A friend is a person who no matter where he is, can always make you smile”. Even though, I can’t see him, he is not with me physically, but just a simple thought of him will make me smile, that person is a friend that I care for, I love.
Since I’ve already figured out the meaning of a ‘friend’ then why am I asking it now?
I want to get some opinions from all of you out there.
Based on what I’ve said, a friend is a person who can make you smile, then how about a person that makes you cry? Is he still a friend?
I still haven’t a clue about this.
Based on my previous definition, would that mean a person that makes me sad or cry is not my friend?
This would be a little contradicting, isn’t it? If a person can make you sad and cry, that means the person possesses a certain position within your heart; a person who is of no importance to you will definitely not be able to make you cry, correct?
An example would be, a person who you know not so well messes up your plans, you will be angry and even scold him, but that’s it, you are just purely angry but not sad, correct? But if a friend messes up your plans, then you will not only be angry but also sad, because you don’t get it why he doesn’t understand the importance of what you are trying to do, right? Try thinking about it, the last time when a friend screws up your things and you feel sad.
Back to the question, is a person who makes you cry, your friend? Can you all please explain to me, as I really don’t know. Thanks…
你们还记得我的答案吗？
答案就是“朋友是不管在哪儿，都能让你微笑的人”。。就这么简单。。虽然，我看不见他，他不在我身边，但是想一想他，我就会微笑，那就是我的朋友，我喜欢，我关心，我爱的朋友。
竟然我已经写过‘朋友’这词汇的意识，那么我为什么还问呢？
其实，我想听听大家的意见。
如果像我说的，朋友是能让我们微笑的人，那么，让我们伤心难过，流泪的人，还算是朋友吗？
这就是我现在在绞尽脑汁寻找答案的问题。。
如果凭着我之前对‘朋友’的定义，朋友是让我微笑的人，那么让我流泪的，就不是朋友了咯？对吗？是这样吗？
其实，这么说会有点矛盾，对吗？因为，一个人若能让你伤心难过，那个人在你心里就一定有某种地位了。若是，一个毫无相干的人，你不认识的人，你认为不重要的人，他就肯定没法让你流泪。
打个比方说，一个你不熟悉的人搞砸了你的计划，你只会很生气，破口大骂，但是，你就只是单单的生气，而不会伤心，对吗？但是，如果，你的朋友把什么事情搞砸了，你就不只是生气了，你会有点儿难过，因为，你伤心，不明白为什么他不了解你的心思。。你们想想看，我这样说，对吗？
现在回到那个问题，让我伤心难过流泪的人，还算是我的朋友吗？你们可以解释一下答案给我吗？因为，我真的不懂。谢谢。。
---------------------------English Translation----------------------------
What is the meaning of a ‘Friend’?
I’ve already answer this question last year in a mandarin post called “A Lonely Lunch”
If you still remember the answer, it is “A friend is a person who no matter where he is, can always make you smile”. Even though, I can’t see him, he is not with me physically, but just a simple thought of him will make me smile, that person is a friend that I care for, I love.
Since I’ve already figured out the meaning of a ‘friend’ then why am I asking it now?
I want to get some opinions from all of you out there.
Based on what I’ve said, a friend is a person who can make you smile, then how about a person that makes you cry? Is he still a friend?
I still haven’t a clue about this.
Based on my previous definition, would that mean a person that makes me sad or cry is not my friend?
This would be a little contradicting, isn’t it? If a person can make you sad and cry, that means the person possesses a certain position within your heart; a person who is of no importance to you will definitely not be able to make you cry, correct?
An example would be, a person who you know not so well messes up your plans, you will be angry and even scold him, but that’s it, you are just purely angry but not sad, correct? But if a friend messes up your plans, then you will not only be angry but also sad, because you don’t get it why he doesn’t understand the importance of what you are trying to do, right? Try thinking about it, the last time when a friend screws up your things and you feel sad.
Back to the question, is a person who makes you cry, your friend? Can you all please explain to me, as I really don’t know. Thanks…
Monday, March 16, 2009
Unpleasant Great Advice - Adapted from Darling's Blog
I was reading my Darling's blog and found this article very interesting. It is originally written in Mandarin, so I will provide the translation here on my blog.
For the original Mandarin version, please visit my Darling's blog.
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Mother Theresa said these:-
If abiding the law, listening to conscience, practising moral values cause you to lose out, that isn't your fault, but a problem with the society itself. Nonetheless, you must follow the regulations, listen to your conscience and practise the moral values.
If you have done something good, you may not get something good in return, or someone may even accuse you of being insincere, accusing you of having ulterior motives. Even then, you must do good things.
If you are successful, you may not be surrounded with cheers and praises, instead, you may attract fake friends and enemy disguising as friends. But, you still have to be successful.
Honesty and being straight forward may harm you, be attacked by others, but then, you must be honest and straight forward.
To destroy is easier than to build, years spent may not build your skyscraper, but a moment of destruction may bring you fame, but you must still build.
If you try, making mistakes along the way is inevitable, some mistakes will be hard to forget and extremely hurtful, but you must still try.
To share what you think is the best may get you into trouble, but then you must still share what you think is the best.
I see your little body being bumped around in your journey in life, I see you being brutally hurt by the evils of the society, my heart will bleed when I see this, but I know the happiness and the heartache, is what the word 'mother' means.
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What do you guys think? Do you agree?
For the original Mandarin version, please visit my Darling's blog.
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Mother Theresa said these:-
If abiding the law, listening to conscience, practising moral values cause you to lose out, that isn't your fault, but a problem with the society itself. Nonetheless, you must follow the regulations, listen to your conscience and practise the moral values.
If you have done something good, you may not get something good in return, or someone may even accuse you of being insincere, accusing you of having ulterior motives. Even then, you must do good things.
If you are successful, you may not be surrounded with cheers and praises, instead, you may attract fake friends and enemy disguising as friends. But, you still have to be successful.
Honesty and being straight forward may harm you, be attacked by others, but then, you must be honest and straight forward.
To destroy is easier than to build, years spent may not build your skyscraper, but a moment of destruction may bring you fame, but you must still build.
If you try, making mistakes along the way is inevitable, some mistakes will be hard to forget and extremely hurtful, but you must still try.
To share what you think is the best may get you into trouble, but then you must still share what you think is the best.
I see your little body being bumped around in your journey in life, I see you being brutally hurt by the evils of the society, my heart will bleed when I see this, but I know the happiness and the heartache, is what the word 'mother' means.
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What do you guys think? Do you agree?
What do to in an emergency like this?
You are in deep shit like the photo below:
You were tied up by crooks on a tree in Africa, with a candle burning the rope on one end and there is a lion waiting for you to drop down to become its lunch, so what can you do to save yourself?
Sing a Happy Birthday song? Then the lion will blow of the candle, and you will be safe for now.. Hehe... I know I know, lame joke from the spammail! hahaha..
You were tied up by crooks on a tree in Africa, with a candle burning the rope on one end and there is a lion waiting for you to drop down to become its lunch, so what can you do to save yourself?
Sing a Happy Birthday song? Then the lion will blow of the candle, and you will be safe for now.. Hehe... I know I know, lame joke from the spammail! hahaha..
Sunday, March 15, 2009
Money or Life?
As usual I boarded a bus to head for the island down South last week, but what was different was the bus driver. For the first time, it was an Indian uncle that I've never seen before.
The first thing when he saw me, he said "Going to S'pore?".
I smiled and nodded.
Driver "Study?"...
Me "Working"
Driver "Oh, haha... you like it there?"
Me "Naa... I'm happier working in Malaysia, people here are friendlier"
Driver "hahaha, I see, I see... Well, before this, I was in S'pore too, for SEVEN LONG YEARS!! I was driving bus over there, but I just gave up!!! I couldn't handle it... There was basically no life at all!"
Me "Really? What you mean? The pay wasn't good?"
Driver "Well, the pay was great, I got $2400 per month which is easily RM5000 over here, but then money is just money laa, it's not everything you know... I had to leave my house at 3am & drive down to JB, then leave my car at my friend's house then take his motorbike across the causeway to the bus station to work. I reach S'pore around 4.30, 5am like that. Then at the end of the day, I come home at around 9pm, then the next day the same thing again"
Driver "You have no idea how tiring it is, you know, you get what I'm saying? Money is just money la, but then, aiyoo, I just couldn't take it laa, that's why I'm here now. I'm happy with this even though the pay is much lower."
That was the conversation that I had with the bus driver. By the way, to let you guys know, when I came back on Friday night, I boarded the same bus driven by this uncle in CS to come home. LOL~~ What a coincident huh!!
To him, between Money and Life, the Indian uncle driver chose Life instead of money. What would you choose? Looking at the number of people who travel over to Singapore everyday to work. It is obvious many do so because the pay there is much higher than what is offered in Malaysia, since the currency is double of the ringgit. So I guess these people are sacrificing their lives for the sake of earning more money.
But for you, would you do the same?
Before some of you hop in and say "Well, I want to earn more money to make my living more comfortable".. Then, I would like you to ask yourself before saying that, whether you are just using that as an excuse to get the money?! hehe.. get what I mean.. Many people nowadays, keep saying, I'm doing this for my children, for my family, for this, for that, but in reality, is it true? Are they just using all this excuses as a noble reason to get the money, to satisfy their thirst for money? Only they themselves know the real answer..
The first thing when he saw me, he said "Going to S'pore?".
I smiled and nodded.
Driver "Study?"...
Me "Working"
Driver "Oh, haha... you like it there?"
Me "Naa... I'm happier working in Malaysia, people here are friendlier"
Driver "hahaha, I see, I see... Well, before this, I was in S'pore too, for SEVEN LONG YEARS!! I was driving bus over there, but I just gave up!!! I couldn't handle it... There was basically no life at all!"
Me "Really? What you mean? The pay wasn't good?"
Driver "Well, the pay was great, I got $2400 per month which is easily RM5000 over here, but then money is just money laa, it's not everything you know... I had to leave my house at 3am & drive down to JB, then leave my car at my friend's house then take his motorbike across the causeway to the bus station to work. I reach S'pore around 4.30, 5am like that. Then at the end of the day, I come home at around 9pm, then the next day the same thing again"
Driver "You have no idea how tiring it is, you know, you get what I'm saying? Money is just money la, but then, aiyoo, I just couldn't take it laa, that's why I'm here now. I'm happy with this even though the pay is much lower."
That was the conversation that I had with the bus driver. By the way, to let you guys know, when I came back on Friday night, I boarded the same bus driven by this uncle in CS to come home. LOL~~ What a coincident huh!!
To him, between Money and Life, the Indian uncle driver chose Life instead of money. What would you choose? Looking at the number of people who travel over to Singapore everyday to work. It is obvious many do so because the pay there is much higher than what is offered in Malaysia, since the currency is double of the ringgit. So I guess these people are sacrificing their lives for the sake of earning more money.
But for you, would you do the same?
Before some of you hop in and say "Well, I want to earn more money to make my living more comfortable".. Then, I would like you to ask yourself before saying that, whether you are just using that as an excuse to get the money?! hehe.. get what I mean.. Many people nowadays, keep saying, I'm doing this for my children, for my family, for this, for that, but in reality, is it true? Are they just using all this excuses as a noble reason to get the money, to satisfy their thirst for money? Only they themselves know the real answer..
How about you? Do you know your answer?
Saturday, March 14, 2009
郭静<麻雀>
有听话语歌曲的人，应该不会对这首歌感到生疏吧。
听着这首歌，大家会有何感触呢？
歌曲里的主角应该是处在一个思念着一份感情的心情。我自己所了解的是，她把自己形容成一只麻雀，而她所谓的家就是她所关心的那一个人吧。
有些人说，我们应当活在当下，但是如果自己心里觉得重要的事出了问题，你能否还活在当下呢？还是，你也会像歌里的主角一样？思念着过去？
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郭静<麻雀>
我坐在屋顶上哽咽湿了春天
想念在风和叶之间粘着昨天
阳光穿过了你的脸
在最美丽的云上面
像我识破你的谎言
当我爱你在最强烈
霎那间爱情不盼也不再鲜艳
我们等不到花盛开的季节
我还不了解你说的抱歉
是对不起我或甜蜜的从前
亮的天在我想你转眼变黑夜
我是来不及回家的麻雀
绕一圈一圈沿着你的脸
希望天黑以前飞出想念
眼泪要带着你彻底被风干
如果飞断了翅膀
让我掉落在天堂
麻雀 - 郭静 Claire Kuo Jing
听着这首歌，大家会有何感触呢？
歌曲里的主角应该是处在一个思念着一份感情的心情。我自己所了解的是，她把自己形容成一只麻雀，而她所谓的家就是她所关心的那一个人吧。
有些人说，我们应当活在当下，但是如果自己心里觉得重要的事出了问题，你能否还活在当下呢？还是，你也会像歌里的主角一样？思念着过去？
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郭静<麻雀>
我坐在屋顶上哽咽湿了春天
想念在风和叶之间粘着昨天
阳光穿过了你的脸
在最美丽的云上面
像我识破你的谎言
当我爱你在最强烈
霎那间爱情不盼也不再鲜艳
我们等不到花盛开的季节
我还不了解你说的抱歉
是对不起我或甜蜜的从前
亮的天在我想你转眼变黑夜
我是来不及回家的麻雀
绕一圈一圈沿着你的脸
希望天黑以前飞出想念
眼泪要带着你彻底被风干
如果飞断了翅膀
让我掉落在天堂
麻雀 - 郭静 Claire Kuo Jing
Friday the 13th
Yesterday was the infamous Friday the 13th!
I don't know about you guys but to me, I don't really like that particular day, and yesterday was no different.
When I reached the causeway (woodland checkpoint), I was greeted with an extremely long bus queue heading to Johor!! How long? Let's give it an estimated no less than 700 people in the queue?! Yes, I'm not kidding!!! Not at all!!!! The queue was so long that the line started to twist and turn because the platform just couldn't handle the vast number of commuters!!
I lined up for close to two hours before boarding the bus and headed back to JB!! I was terrible!!!
You maybe thinking why I chose not to walk across the causeway. The thing is, there is a ban implemented by the Malaysia & Singapore Authority on walking across the causeway because the new roads leading to the Malaysia CIQ does not cater to padestrians! So it's rather dangerous!!
The last time I tried to walk, I was stopped by the police and immigration officers at the JB old checkpoint complex. But that was the last week where they only give a warning. After that day, I'm not sure whether the Malaysia Police would fine you should they catch you walking across the causeway. So that's why I stayed in the pathetically long queue in Woodlands for closed to TWO HOURS!!
Luckily yesterday is now gone!!
I don't know about you guys but to me, I don't really like that particular day, and yesterday was no different.
When I reached the causeway (woodland checkpoint), I was greeted with an extremely long bus queue heading to Johor!! How long? Let's give it an estimated no less than 700 people in the queue?! Yes, I'm not kidding!!! Not at all!!!! The queue was so long that the line started to twist and turn because the platform just couldn't handle the vast number of commuters!!
I lined up for close to two hours before boarding the bus and headed back to JB!! I was terrible!!!
You maybe thinking why I chose not to walk across the causeway. The thing is, there is a ban implemented by the Malaysia & Singapore Authority on walking across the causeway because the new roads leading to the Malaysia CIQ does not cater to padestrians! So it's rather dangerous!!
The last time I tried to walk, I was stopped by the police and immigration officers at the JB old checkpoint complex. But that was the last week where they only give a warning. After that day, I'm not sure whether the Malaysia Police would fine you should they catch you walking across the causeway. So that's why I stayed in the pathetically long queue in Woodlands for closed to TWO HOURS!!
Luckily yesterday is now gone!!
Wednesday, March 11, 2009
Is New Good?
We often go for the new stuffs in life, new bag, new pen, new hi-fi, new tv, new computer, new friends, new house, etc... But is new good?
I brought my old laptop to the computer shop to look for an upgrade for the RAM last week. Upon seeing the laptop, the eyes of the salesperson went wide open!! Yes, no kidding!! I should have taken a photo of him and send to Star Newspaper, maybe I will get RM50 for the photo!!!
Then he asked me, are you sure you want to upgrade the RAM for this? The RAM is not cheap you know. "Yea" I replied.
Then he asked again "How old is it actually?"
I replied "6 years already.."
He said "Then why you want to upgrade? Just change a new laptop la"
The thing is, my Acer Travelmate 290 Intel Centrino laptop has been of great service to me for the past six years. It's loyalty cannot be questioned!! It hasn't broken down before and work well for me helping me complete my assignments and work and even providing me with some entertainment. Even though it's spec no longer allows me to play all the new games, but nonetheless, I can still surf net and youtube and crunchyroll and listen to my favorite songs and blogging which is more than enough.
So, I really have no intention of disposing it, selling it for a new laptop. It would be rather heartless for me to just go for a new one and forget it when it has been so nice to me all this while. Frankly, I'm rather grateful that I have this laptop, because the shop that sold me the laptop last time told me that laptops don't normally last very long, it's life is about 2.3 to 3 years and it's specs are outdated after 18 months as that is the cycle to produce a new laptop by the companies.
Maybe because of that, this shop's salesman was kind of shock when I said my laptop is 6 years old!! LOL~~~ And still working!!!! I've also heard from other friends that their laptops are either dead of half dead prompting them to get new ones already even after 1.5 years only. I guess Acer really does produce very good computers (Note: I'm not advertising for them, just that I really think so).
Back to the topic, "Is New Good?".. I guess maybe yes, maybe no... New means you get to see new things, new characteristics, new design, new personality, new advances, but at the same time, there is also that uncertainty... Maybe it will not work, maybe it will breakdown, maybe things just won't work out for you and the new stuff.
Sometimes, old can be rather nice too... Don't you think so... hehe... Love you Acer Travelmate 290 Intel Centrino!!! Hahaha... I don't care, I will sayang you, so will upgrade you a bit to boost your energy, so you won't feel too tired when I overuse you sometimes.. hehe...
Monday, March 9, 2009
"爱"和"喜欢"有什么不同？
喜欢你的人，当你在的时候会觉得很开心，
爱你的人，却会因你而流泪，
喜欢你的人，未必会爱你，
但爱你的人，就一定也会喜欢你。。
上面几句话，大家明白吗？
Leong-dear wrote another post on this topic (in Mandarin): http://wjleong.blogspot.com (Have a read...)
爱你的人，却会因你而流泪，
喜欢你的人，未必会爱你，
但爱你的人，就一定也会喜欢你。。
上面几句话，大家明白吗？
Leong-dear wrote another post on this topic (in Mandarin): http://wjleong.blogspot.com (Have a read...)
Saturday, March 7, 2009
性骚扰 - Sexual Harassment
昨天读了我darling的blog。 突然就想起我以前在中学做的一件事。。哈哈。。
没想到我的darling在学校里竟然有办法把女生的内衣扣给打开！！哈哈哈！！！说真的，人家内衣在里面，女生又有两层衣，里面的白校衣，还有外面的蓝衣，所以，还是没法想象我darling是如何办到的。佩服！！佩服！！！
我自己呢？哈哈。。刚才说到自己在中学对朋友做了件事。。嘻嘻。。。那时是下午班，所以拜一傍晚五点半，我们都得到停车场集合，开周会。
铃声一响，大家都到课室外排队，女生先走，男生在后。。走着走着，突然觉得有点闷，朋友又走在我前面，就突然伸手去拉他裤子，真的没想到会拉得这么大力，一拉就连内裤也拉下了！！哈哈哈。。真的是看得一清二楚咯。。我是没看到前面啦，前面有前面的人看到，我只是看到后面白白的屁股！！哈哈哈。。
哈哈。。我是很顽皮的！！这我承认！！哈哈。。挺好玩的。。
现在看会题目，‘性骚扰’。。想问一问大家，我的举动，是否是性骚扰？哈哈。。
我自己是觉得答案可以是‘是’也可以是‘不是’。。
在那情况，被拉裤子的是我朋友，虽然他是不爽啦，因为连内裤都撤下了，哈哈。。但是他还是知道我只是在作弄他，所以，不属于性骚扰的问题。
但是，如果被啦裤子的人，不是认识的人，那么，就可能被别人认为是性骚扰了。。对吗？哈哈哈。。
Additional Note:
When I was in the bus on Friday evening, a guy sitting next to me fell asleep and leant on my shoulder for around 1 hour. I didn't wake him up coz I think he was very tired and didn't want to disturb him.
Is that considered as a sexual harassment? Hahaha...
Imagine if you see a pretty babe, and u act like u feel asleep and lean on her shoulders.. Hahaha... hmmm... how would that be?
******************English Translation********************
While reading Darling's blog yesterday, it reminded me of an incident during secondary school.
In the afternoon session, we were required to attend the weekly assembly on Monday evenings at 5.30pm.
The bell rings and all of us queue outside the class and headed towards the car park for the assembly with the girls leading in front.
I was kind of bored during the journey. Seeing my friend was walking in front of me. My hands unconsciously moved towards his pants and I pulled them down!! Hell Ya!! I pulled his pants down. But I didn't expect that I was pulling so hard til his underwear was also at his knees!!! LOL~~ Well, I didn't get to see the front, anyway those in front were looking at it anyway, I on the other hand got to look at his white butt!! HAHAAHAH!!!
I admit that I'm naughty!! I know I always am... hahaha...
As the title states, do you guys think what I did was actually a "Sexual Harassment" offence?
To me, the answer can be a Yes and also a No.
In that particular situation, it is not, as the victim was my friend, he knows that I was just playing a trick on him, even though he wasn't very happy with it since his underwear went all the way down to the knees too!! Haha.. It was still just a trick to him...
But if the victim was someone that is not close to me, I guess the answer will be Yes, it was a sexual harassment!! haha...
没想到我的darling在学校里竟然有办法把女生的内衣扣给打开！！哈哈哈！！！说真的，人家内衣在里面，女生又有两层衣，里面的白校衣，还有外面的蓝衣，所以，还是没法想象我darling是如何办到的。佩服！！佩服！！！
我自己呢？哈哈。。刚才说到自己在中学对朋友做了件事。。嘻嘻。。。那时是下午班，所以拜一傍晚五点半，我们都得到停车场集合，开周会。
铃声一响，大家都到课室外排队，女生先走，男生在后。。走着走着，突然觉得有点闷，朋友又走在我前面，就突然伸手去拉他裤子，真的没想到会拉得这么大力，一拉就连内裤也拉下了！！哈哈哈。。真的是看得一清二楚咯。。我是没看到前面啦，前面有前面的人看到，我只是看到后面白白的屁股！！哈哈哈。。
哈哈。。我是很顽皮的！！这我承认！！哈哈。。挺好玩的。。
现在看会题目，‘性骚扰’。。想问一问大家，我的举动，是否是性骚扰？哈哈。。
我自己是觉得答案可以是‘是’也可以是‘不是’。。
在那情况，被拉裤子的是我朋友，虽然他是不爽啦，因为连内裤都撤下了，哈哈。。但是他还是知道我只是在作弄他，所以，不属于性骚扰的问题。
但是，如果被啦裤子的人，不是认识的人，那么，就可能被别人认为是性骚扰了。。对吗？哈哈哈。。
Additional Note:
When I was in the bus on Friday evening, a guy sitting next to me fell asleep and leant on my shoulder for around 1 hour. I didn't wake him up coz I think he was very tired and didn't want to disturb him.
Is that considered as a sexual harassment? Hahaha...
Imagine if you see a pretty babe, and u act like u feel asleep and lean on her shoulders.. Hahaha... hmmm... how would that be?
******************English Translation********************
While reading Darling's blog yesterday, it reminded me of an incident during secondary school.
In the afternoon session, we were required to attend the weekly assembly on Monday evenings at 5.30pm.
The bell rings and all of us queue outside the class and headed towards the car park for the assembly with the girls leading in front.
I was kind of bored during the journey. Seeing my friend was walking in front of me. My hands unconsciously moved towards his pants and I pulled them down!! Hell Ya!! I pulled his pants down. But I didn't expect that I was pulling so hard til his underwear was also at his knees!!! LOL~~ Well, I didn't get to see the front, anyway those in front were looking at it anyway, I on the other hand got to look at his white butt!! HAHAAHAH!!!
I admit that I'm naughty!! I know I always am... hahaha...
As the title states, do you guys think what I did was actually a "Sexual Harassment" offence?
To me, the answer can be a Yes and also a No.
In that particular situation, it is not, as the victim was my friend, he knows that I was just playing a trick on him, even though he wasn't very happy with it since his underwear went all the way down to the knees too!! Haha.. It was still just a trick to him...
But if the victim was someone that is not close to me, I guess the answer will be Yes, it was a sexual harassment!! haha...
Friday, March 6, 2009
Leong-dear asked "Why do we need love?"
Recently, Leong-dear asked a question on Facebook "Why do we need love?"
Love is something that none of us can escape from as we are always connected to it in some way.
There is love between you and your family, your lover, your friends and even your pets.
Since love exist everywhere in our lives, so how could one live without it?
I think all good things involve love.
You help an injured animal because you love animals.
You help your friend because you love your friend.
You eat and breathe everyday because you love yourself.
And the list goes on...
Looking at the photos below, I guess the saying "Love conquers all" is true...
The white tiger is a carnivorous predator while the chimpanzee is an easy prey for them.
But as you can see, they can live happily together.
"If love is present, no matter how different we are, we can still love each other no matter how hard things will be..."
Love is something that none of us can escape from as we are always connected to it in some way.
There is love between you and your family, your lover, your friends and even your pets.
Since love exist everywhere in our lives, so how could one live without it?
I think all good things involve love.
You help an injured animal because you love animals.
You help your friend because you love your friend.
You eat and breathe everyday because you love yourself.
And the list goes on...
Looking at the photos below, I guess the saying "Love conquers all" is true...
The white tiger is a carnivorous predator while the chimpanzee is an easy prey for them.
But as you can see, they can live happily together.
"If love is present, no matter how different we are, we can still love each other no matter how hard things will be..."
Wednesday, March 4, 2009
笨就是聪明？
"当一个人笨到一种境界的时候，他就是聪明的" - 黄蓉
以上的话，就是东邪黄药师的爱女，黄蓉，在得知郭靖把蛇给咬死后，对他说的话。
你们同意她的说法吗？
有时候看见某些长辈生气时，都会骂小孩子，说他们笨。那些小孩子真的很笨吗？
如果是，他们会变聪明吗？几时才会变聪明，怎样才算是聪明呢？
聪明的定义是什么？是不是人问什么，我们什么都会答，都会做？这就是聪明吗？
不同人的眼里，都对聪明有不同的定义。
你的聪明，未必是我的聪明，我的聪明，也未必是你的。
何谓聪明呢？因人而异吧？！ 哈哈。。。
以上的话，就是东邪黄药师的爱女，黄蓉，在得知郭靖把蛇给咬死后，对他说的话。
你们同意她的说法吗？
有时候看见某些长辈生气时，都会骂小孩子，说他们笨。那些小孩子真的很笨吗？
如果是，他们会变聪明吗？几时才会变聪明，怎样才算是聪明呢？
聪明的定义是什么？是不是人问什么，我们什么都会答，都会做？这就是聪明吗？
不同人的眼里，都对聪明有不同的定义。
你的聪明，未必是我的聪明，我的聪明，也未必是你的。
何谓聪明呢？因人而异吧？！ 哈哈。。。
Monday, March 2, 2009
Sunday, March 1, 2009
问答
我问你答
你问我答
我问，你不答
你问，我不答
我不问，你不答
你不问，我怎答
答非所问
问非所答
问了不答
答了不问
你不答，我怎问？
我不答，你有啥可问？
问答不是跟着阴阳理论的吗？
有问可以没答吗?
没问可以有答吗？
有答可以没问吗？
没答可以有问吗？
当然，问了，也有权不答
所以，答了，也有权不问
但是。。
有来有往吗。。
如果没来，
久了还会有往吗？
问答，问答。。
咳。。惭愧呀。。惭愧。。
其中的玄机，小僧还是无法参透。。
阿弥陀佛。。。善哉。。善哉。。
张韶涵 - 猜不透.Wma -
你问我答
我问，你不答
你问，我不答
我不问，你不答
你不问，我怎答
答非所问
问非所答
问了不答
答了不问
你不答，我怎问？
我不答，你有啥可问？
问答不是跟着阴阳理论的吗？
有问可以没答吗?
没问可以有答吗？
有答可以没问吗？
没答可以有问吗？
当然，问了，也有权不答
所以，答了，也有权不问
但是。。
有来有往吗。。
如果没来，
久了还会有往吗？
问答，问答。。
咳。。惭愧呀。。惭愧。。
其中的玄机，小僧还是无法参透。。
阿弥陀佛。。。善哉。。善哉。。
张韶涵 - 猜不透.Wma -
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