Yes, I really don't like B.
Sometimes I wonder why B is so arrogant! I know everybody has the tendency to protect their own image by denying mistakes. Even myself too, but I always try to remember that I'm not a saint, it is impossible for me to be clear of mistakes, hence I will admit that I did something wrong.
But B is totally different.
Maybe B doesn't do it on purpose, but the way she explains something when there is a problem makes it sound like it is XF's fault when it was her own fault! XF already tried very hard to teach her, but she just can't seem to learn. When XF explained to her what was the mistake, she kept saying she understand everything, but when in front of others, she start saying another thing and it sounded like it was XF's fault.
I've nothing personal against B, but I just really feel pity for XF because it is as though she is taking the blame for a lot of things.
Even though I don't like B's attitude, but I still help her in the dark. She is a very tiny little girl around 150cm and can't reach high objects. Sometimes when I know she will be using some bottles of chemicals, I will purposely walk passed them and bring them down to the lower shelves so she don't have to bring a short ladder to get them. But I don't do this in front of her, I would normally do it before she goes to take the things.
Sometimes when she forgets to keep her stuffs, I would just keep it for her, just because I don't want her experiments to be messed up. She is really a very forgetful person. She even thinks that the tubes were kept by her the previous day, but actually I was the one who collected them and kept them in her freezer shelf.
Yes, as I've said, I don't like her, but I really have nothing against her personally. That's why I help her in the dark. I know I won't get anything back from her by helping her in the dark. But when i help others, I most often have never thought of getting anything back in return anyway. I help someone just because I want to. It doesn't mean I have other motives or intentions to do so.
I hope people can stop thinking negatively of me as though I have some sort of evil intentions when I treat someone nice, or help someone, because I'm just not a cunning & scheming 'actor'.
But then again, I guess people would say "A wolf would never admit that it is up to something bad would it?"
Sometimes I wonder why B is so arrogant! I know everybody has the tendency to protect their own image by denying mistakes. Even myself too, but I always try to remember that I'm not a saint, it is impossible for me to be clear of mistakes, hence I will admit that I did something wrong.
But B is totally different.
Maybe B doesn't do it on purpose, but the way she explains something when there is a problem makes it sound like it is XF's fault when it was her own fault! XF already tried very hard to teach her, but she just can't seem to learn. When XF explained to her what was the mistake, she kept saying she understand everything, but when in front of others, she start saying another thing and it sounded like it was XF's fault.
I've nothing personal against B, but I just really feel pity for XF because it is as though she is taking the blame for a lot of things.
Even though I don't like B's attitude, but I still help her in the dark. She is a very tiny little girl around 150cm and can't reach high objects. Sometimes when I know she will be using some bottles of chemicals, I will purposely walk passed them and bring them down to the lower shelves so she don't have to bring a short ladder to get them. But I don't do this in front of her, I would normally do it before she goes to take the things.
Sometimes when she forgets to keep her stuffs, I would just keep it for her, just because I don't want her experiments to be messed up. She is really a very forgetful person. She even thinks that the tubes were kept by her the previous day, but actually I was the one who collected them and kept them in her freezer shelf.
Yes, as I've said, I don't like her, but I really have nothing against her personally. That's why I help her in the dark. I know I won't get anything back from her by helping her in the dark. But when i help others, I most often have never thought of getting anything back in return anyway. I help someone just because I want to. It doesn't mean I have other motives or intentions to do so.
I hope people can stop thinking negatively of me as though I have some sort of evil intentions when I treat someone nice, or help someone, because I'm just not a cunning & scheming 'actor'.
But then again, I guess people would say "A wolf would never admit that it is up to something bad would it?"
6 comments:
well.. different people different personalities.. =/
so nice of u!!!!
And i mean every word of it, in a good way!
Well, i guess people grow up to be how they are because of their environment. There's always a factor/reason behind how someone carry themselves.
So, we just got to help as much, and expect less.
p.c
thanks. those r very sweet words from u.
Hehehe..
i guess u r rite, if i do something wrong, but the friends i mixed with never think it was wrong, then i would never have thought it was wrong even if u tell me so.. haha.. do i make any sense?
yea, thats why u got to mix with the correct type of people!!
p.c
thats very subjective baa.. how do we know whether it's the rite or not rite type wor.. haha...
Kenwooi
yup. I agree.
tht makes us unique.. hehe
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