他爸爸做鸭的,
他妹妹是个妓女,
他弟弟搞同性恋!!
终于把心里话说出来了,舒服吗?? 但是你真的能说这些话吗?
有些人觉得,
和自己的朋友在一起的时候,
什么都可以说,
无所不谈,
这,我同意,毕竟是和自己喜欢的朋友,
但是,在讨论某些话题的时候,我们也必须对自己的话付出‘责任’。
“饭可以乱吃,话不可以乱讲”
这句话,是不是白痴都有听过呢?
我们想要做什么,说什么,
没人可以管,大家都会让我们去做,
但是我们得为自己做出的事,说过的话,付出责任,
不是说了,做了,就当没发生过,当不知道,
为何做的时候,说的时候,没去想不应该说,不应该做呢?
是不是完完全全只为了满足自己的娱乐而去做,去说?
为何有些人会有如此不负责任的思想?
是教育问题吗?
还是家教问题?
还是朋友影响的关系?
你曾经想过吗,
因为你说的一句话,
别人的生活严重被影响,
因为你说的一句话,
别人被他人取笑,
因为你说的一句话,
别人被误解被排挤。。
这人的感受如何?
你有想过吗?
"Because of how far this thing has gone, and you are in education line, it will affect your career. A joke is a joke, but when it damages someone's career and reputation, then it is no longer funny." - Kim
------Don't understand Mandarin, here you go, International Language version------His mother is a bitch,
His father is a gigolo,
His sister is a whore,
His brother is a gay!
There you go!! I've said out my mind!!! Feels good eh?? But can you really say all these?
Some people think,
You can say whatever you want when you are with your friends,
I do agree to some extend with this,
But the emphasis here is we must always take "responsibility" of what we have or are going to say (or do).
An old Chinese saying "You can eat whatever you want, but never say anything as you please"
Nobody will/can refrain you from doing/saying what you want,
It is totally up to you,
But you must always be mindful of your actions,
And most importantly, take responsibility of it,
You can't do something, say something and then assume nothing happened or you've done nothing,
Did you do it or say it just to satisfy your personal pleasure?
Why do certain people have such irresponsible attitude?
Is it a problem with their education?
Is it a matter with their upbringing?
Or is it an issue with the people they mix with?
Have you put in some thought that for what you've done/said,
Somebody's life is affected by your inconsiderate remarks?
Have you ever given some thought that for what you've done/said,
Somebody becomes ridiculed by others for no reason?
Have you have the simplest intelligence at all to just think that for what you've done/said,
Somebody is misunderstood by others and looked down upon?
How does this person feel?
Have you think about that?
NOTE: Should there be any disparity between the two posts (Chinese & English), the English post precedes.
2 comments:
Word is a powerful tool. It can destroy things within second, which takes years to built up. Hope, trust, friendships...
People who are responsible will know that each word they speak has weightage on it, and with every work they speak, it is affecting the others.
p.c
Well,some ppl don't I guess.
Those ppl even said they think they have done nth wrong, so? How?
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