“八卦掌”输给“永春拳”？

八卦掌真的会输给永春拳吗？

Hmm... 这个题目很有趣！八卦掌步法是以五形八卦为基础组成的。简单来说，八卦掌注重的是避直取斜，所以象是走八卦外边的圈圈。

永春拳呢？这套拳法的重点在于以最短的的距离击中对方，也就是说以直线攻击。

在物理的观点来看的话，以直线攻击会发挥最大的力量，因为身体的中心和拳头形成一条直线，支撑着打出去的拳头。

一套掌法注重避直，然后以斜形攻击，另一个拳法则是以直线攻击，那么为何八卦掌会输呢？我不明白。你们呢？

我对这两套武工不熟悉，所以也很难分析出结果。就只是觉得武术简直是博大精深。每套掌法，拳法都有它独特之处。所以，应该是没有哪儿一套掌法比哪儿一录拳法还厉害的。

叶问曾说：

“不是拳法的问题，是人的问题”

洪七公也说过

“没有必要去学这么多不同的武工，应该转研一种，把它发挥到最高极限”

意思是说，两套不同的拳法若是相见，那么就得看那人对自己拳法的悟性有多高来决定胜负了。

人问：“为什么我会喜欢HL？“

最近有人问我为什么会喜欢HL。哈，这问题有点特别。

我喜欢他的直率。从他的朋友那儿听说他时常因这样得罪别人。可是，你们有想过吗？你们比较喜欢一个直率的人还是一个很有心计，暗地里做出很多你意想不到的事的人？

但我最喜欢的是，以前，看着他，我看见小时狂妄自大的我。

每次看到他，我就一直提醒自己不要变回以前那样。

小时，很多时候都觉得自己最聪明，最厉害！

小学，除了颍轩，慧秋，惠敏，智辉，传智，这五人，都没有人能和我在学业上斗。所以常常很自豪，最后，真的有点骄傲。

中一，中年考试时，输到惨不忍睹！第二十一名！！天啊！！但是年终考试和之后，我都排名第一或二，象老师常说的，无人能敌。

中四时，参加了辅导学会，常常和辅导老师在一起搞学会杂志，而且常到她家去用电脑做杂志。辅导学会的杂志虽然可以放入很多不同的文章，但是重点总是与‘道德’有关。也因为这样从她那儿了解了一个道理‘虚心向上’。

有天，我在打杂志的文章，躺在床上抱着小A的老师问我‘以后你想做什么？’

我傻眼。

她说;

‘不管你以后想要做什么，最好是做自己有兴趣的事，这样才不会觉得累赘，麻烦，而且要记得，不管是什么方面，天外有天，总有人比自己好，总有学习的地方，虚心向上才会学到新知识，改进自己，傲气往往是让人看到他人不足之处，而只是看到自己比他人好的性格’

听了那句话，顿时傻了一下，想起很多事，小一和二时，班上有四十同学，我老是排第三十九或四十。是小三时才开始有进步。自己的成就是花了很多时间才得到的。同样的，他人也在努力。每个人都希望做到最好，但是不是每个人都能。如果我看不起别人，那么，小一和小二时，也有很多人看不起我，那种被看不起的感受不好过。所以，我根本都没有必要感到骄傲，因为，还可以进步，还可以加强。

这几个月以来，我一直提醒自己这一点，还有进步的地方，看看朋友的好，和他们学习，向他们讨教。这让我发现，真的有很多得学习。

有为好友说：人非圣贤，孰能无过。

我想接：过而能改，善莫大焉。

哈哈。。

学习学习。。学不完。。学什么？什么都能学。。

加油！！！

帮朋友，帮到冻伤自己的双手。。

从小，只要朋友开口要我帮忙，我都会傻傻地去帮。

很多时候，因为要帮朋友而给自己带来麻烦。

即使是这样，我还是很乐意帮，不懂为何，每次帮了朋友，都觉得有点开心，虽然有点麻烦，但是看到朋友的事情搞定了，还是会挺开心的。

拜一，Andre说别人给他错的细胞做实验，所以找我看有没有他要的那种细胞，本来就有听说他的实验会花很长的时间，所以就试一试帮他找。

那些细胞都收在零下八十度的雪柜里。找了一会儿，才帮他找到他要的细胞。

可是，我从冷房里走出来时，才突然发现双手有种刺痛的感觉，看一看才发现原来我十只手指的皮肉都没冻僵了，而且是被冻死了。

照片里可以看到我的手指都是白色的，因为皮肤外层还有底下的肉已经是死了，有些已经开始变紫红色。都三天了，还是很痛，碰到冷水或热水都会痛。开水壶痛，开门也痛，拿牙刷也痛。大多只能用手掌来做事。

刚才看到Andre，他说他的实验成功，还替他感到开心，因为他的实验真的有点难。但是没跟他说我的手指都受伤了。

其实我不知道自己这种态度是否对还是错。吉隆坡的朋友说这样很讲义气，新加坡和新山认识的人很多都说我这种态度很笨，即使是朋友也没有必要帮到给自己带来麻烦。

在不同的人群中，看东西的方法会不同。有些会觉得对，有些会觉得错。有时搞得自己不知道是对是错。最近有人警告我说，即使我对，但是他们那群人说我错，那我就是错了。对还是错？

我从小就是这样，很尽力去帮朋友，我要是说会帮就是会帮，不会在大家面前说帮，但是在后面当什么都不知道。这样很不道德。

有可能也因为这样，有些人会觉得我对别人有恶意。帮一个人，静静地帮，自己有麻烦都没吭声，我一点好处都没有咯，有什么恶意？真心对待别人，有时，在别人的眼里，也是一种错。

咳。。好累。。打这篇文章都要用指甲剪来打。。。

What is friendship? by Michelle

Friendship isn't how you forget
but how you forgive,

Not how we listen
but how you understand,

Not what you see
but how you feel,

Not how you let go
but how you hold on.

By Michelle at mY wOrd.. my World...
(FYI: The caption is on her Blog Header)

Buddy Ah Fai Getting Married!!!

OH MY GOD!!! hahaha... So happy!!

One of my closest friends, Ah Fai buddy is getting married with Amanda.

Really feel very happy for them. Hmm.. How long liao ah? Let me count.. hehe.. 6 years? Been through a lot I guess. Finally tied the knot with the blessing of God.

My best wishes to this blessed couple!!

Ah Fai, I promise you, if your wedding is during the time when I'm back in Malaysia, 我爬都会爬去赴宴！！！哈哈。。

我是马来西亚华人，不是马来人。

上面的话，我讲了很多次，
为何那些中国人都听不懂的？？

In English: I'm a Malaysian Chinese, not a Malay!!

Is it so hard to differentiate?
I'm not asking you to differentiate the races, but just the terminology.

It shouldn't be that hard.

I don't know why People's Republic of China (PRC) Chinese don't like other countries' Chinese to refer themselves as Chinese.

They think, since the country is call China, so the people in that country is called Chinese.

Hence, the Chinese people in Malaysia or Singapore should not call themselves as Chinese, but should be called Malaysian or Singaporean or Malaysian Chinese or Singaporean Chinese.

Why so weird?

The people in Singapore or Malaysia doesn't come in one color like in China, there are so many races here. So, what's wrong with referring ourselves as Chinese? I don't get it.

I really don't get it. I think I should ask some Liason officer in Wisma Putra about whether there is any protocol on these terminology?

I don't like B

Yes, I really don't like B.

Sometimes I wonder why B is so arrogant! I know everybody has the tendency to protect their own image by denying mistakes. Even myself too, but I always try to remember that I'm not a saint, it is impossible for me to be clear of mistakes, hence I will admit that I did something wrong.

But B is totally different.

Maybe B doesn't do it on purpose, but the way she explains something when there is a problem makes it sound like it is XF's fault when it was her own fault! XF already tried very hard to teach her, but she just can't seem to learn. When XF explained to her what was the mistake, she kept saying she understand everything, but when in front of others, she start saying another thing and it sounded like it was XF's fault.

I've nothing personal against B, but I just really feel pity for XF because it is as though she is taking the blame for a lot of things.

Even though I don't like B's attitude, but I still help her in the dark. She is a very tiny little girl around 150cm and can't reach high objects. Sometimes when I know she will be using some bottles of chemicals, I will purposely walk passed them and bring them down to the lower shelves so she don't have to bring a short ladder to get them. But I don't do this in front of her, I would normally do it before she goes to take the things.

Sometimes when she forgets to keep her stuffs, I would just keep it for her, just because I don't want her experiments to be messed up. She is really a very forgetful person. She even thinks that the tubes were kept by her the previous day, but actually I was the one who collected them and kept them in her freezer shelf.

Yes, as I've said, I don't like her, but I really have nothing against her personally. That's why I help her in the dark. I know I won't get anything back from her by helping her in the dark. But when i help others, I most often have never thought of getting anything back in return anyway. I help someone just because I want to. It doesn't mean I have other motives or intentions to do so.

I hope people can stop thinking negatively of me as though I have some sort of evil intentions when I treat someone nice, or help someone, because I'm just not a cunning & scheming 'actor'.

But then again, I guess people would say "A wolf would never admit that it is up to something bad would it?"

How does it feel to be insulted by a friend?

Recently, I found out something which made me very uneasy. I understand the fact that where there are people, there will always be gossips. I admit I can't avoid that, neither can any of us. I can't control their mind, neither can I stop their mouth.

Anyway, since a long time ago, I have cultivated an ability which allow me to not take into heart the words said or things done by people who are not my friends. This people can be people whom I know of their existence or just mere strangers. They can do whatever they want, say whatever they want and I won't feel a single thing at all.

I only take deeply the words of my friends seriously, especially those whom I treat as close friends. Every advice they give, I try to understand and try to learn. Every opinion they give, I will take into consideration and discuss how to apply it. I've learned a lot from my close friends.

As such, the words of my friends or close friends can also affect me a lot unfortunately.

As I've said, I don't mind what other people say about me, think about me, they can gossip whatever they want and I won't mind. I won't bother much. I will just smile, though occasionally I won't be happy but as long as I know I have my close friends around me. I don't mind all this.

But how does it feel if I find out that people that I treat as friends actually got involved in spreading rumors about me? I guess the answer is obvious.

Well, some people would say they were joking and stuff. But, they aren't a 5 year old child anymore. They aren't uneducated. They should have the mind to figure out what can be said and what cannot be said even in jokes.

Somethings when being joked around and spread will cause a lot of misunderstandings and screw up others' lives. Have you all gave some thought about that? Or it's mere amusement and fun for you all that the others' lives are not important?

I know people will say "Oh, you can't blame me, it's your actions which lead me to think that way, if you didn't act that way, then nobody would have thought it that way".

At the same time, I can say "I can do whatever I want, but as long as you trust me, you wouldn't be thinking negatively of me, as you are not supposed to judge a book by its cover, and am I not your friend?"

Recently, I'm a little disappointed that people I treat as my friends are involved in spreading rumors whether it is intentionally or unintentionally.
One, they are my friends, they should have known better to do so;
Two, they are educated, they should have the maturity to know what is right and what is wrong; Three, for some who are taking certain courses related to human relations, shouldn't you people know better about this?

I believe that God has always planned a lot of things for everyone of us. And this is one of the challenges he planned for me.

At the worst of times, I have gained many good things at God's grace. And I believe that through this harsh times, I will also gain many more good insights to life.

I definitely thank God for every opportunity that I've been given.

And I would like to thank my real friends who stayed by my side throughout the hard times

And I would like to thank those who tried and are still trying to hurt me because I learn to be stronger by the day.